I haven't seen very many RTD era episodes (still catching up on Nine and Ten), so maybe I'll feel differently after watching them all.

Yeah. Certainly if you were a fan of RTD's era, then I don't blame anyone who is angry following the 50th diabolical. Honestly, I think I'm more angry that Moffat had the arrogance to rewrite all his predecessor's work over Gallifrey coming back. (Although, canonically the Doctor has never liked the other Time Lords, and the other Time Lords have always hated the Doctor. So I'm at a lost as to why the Doctor is even happy to go back to Gallifrey in the first place.)